Wonderful Marriage

Attended one marriage last week ... & experienced something strange. will surely tell you about this. just wait n watch ............

Re : An Accident

Life never gives you a second chance. You can not rewind life.
Sometimes we get to meet ourselves. the accident which happened over weekend was something like that only. In such a momentary time we got a chance to see the peak of anger along with a guilt of kid. May be it was not us but may be it was the worst of us.

It was actually not cursing about anybody, it was all about the hard work which we had. It always happen when we become so possessive & obsessive about something, it actually happen. May be because God wants us to know that this not the first or last thing to do, there are lots of other things in life which are waiting for us. whatever we think or we say, it doesn't matter because at the end of the day it was just an accident & it was only the things. Loss of things never matter, anybody can manage with that. Just Thank Ganesh ji that there was no loss on person

Anyways leave all these things, just look at the positive side
This incident made us more strong in terms of things which we use, stability of life, tolerance of our behaviors.

An Accident

I am sorry for the accident happened yesterday, I know what happened but i dont know how it happened to be through my hands.

Perhaps it was not such a big accident as everybody consoled, but given the peripheral conditions it meant a lot to me. It has lasted a scar on my heart as well as mind which i think will remain for a few time.

when accident happens we curse people who are responsible for it or we curse god for choosing us for the wounds, but for the first time I felt that how does it feels to curse yourself, when you know that you are sole responsible person on earth to make you stand in such a condition which is tough to overcome.

I felt like hiding myself from me.I came to know ki practically Bana banaya kaam bigaadna kise kehte hain. Jese kisi shadi se 2 din pehle ladki ke baap ne apna main gate tod diya ho ya fir kisi film ke muhurat pe kisi ne 50L ka set uda diya ho.

Still I thank god for alerting me with this little prompt which could be huge and everlasting as far as the accidents are concerned.

Whatever people will say I am not bothered, but when my mind asks me why this blunder ?, my heart replies……. it was not me

It was not me at all.......... :(

Have you ever felt so good in the office as i am feeling for this week ?

There is a reason, actually a very solid reason & if i'll tell you that i am damn sure you'll wish for the same.

Testimonial for my sweetheart

Today i am in mood to share something about my sweetheart.. so lets start

Abhishek ... the love of my life ... :).. my dear dearest hubby darling ... :)
so obviously whatever i'll say about him will be good only ... coz pyaar mein kuch b galat lagta hi nahi hai ;)
well .... this is one general thing bt still u cant change the truth that he is the Bestest Person in this whole Universe nd i am so lucky to have him in my life ... used to Thank Ganesh ji on daily basis for His this blessing to me :)

Very handsome & Sexy guy ......... ;).. with mind blowing sense of humour !!
too good by heart ... always say wat is right ...love to give n take surprises all the times :)
By nature he is a ambivert person .... well-balanced in life .... kind of punctual ( not al the times )...
He always take right decision in every situation & can easily differentiate between right & wrong . The person who knows how to take decision and always stick with his principles nd decisions ...
bit short tempered.... ( mere liye to bahut jyada bt i take it as his possessiveness ;) )...
very energetic when it comes to any notorious work .... sabse shaitaan n badmaash baby hai ye ... :)
Always caring & supportive .... nt only for me bt for all his frnds n loved ones ..
always there at good n bad times ...

last bt nt the least he the Gem of life ... ideal for me .... whether at work or at home ...
he always do his best to keep his family happy ........ nd always succeed in that ...
thu thu .. nazar na lage itne pyaare n shone baby ko :)

lots n lots n lotsssss of love to you ........... dnt knw hw much bt the most
( Hamein tumse pyaar kitna ye hum nahi jaante .... magar jee nahi sakte tumhaare bina ....)
two lines for u .....
Jaise ho vaise rehna .... tumse hai yehi kehna ...
kehna hai tumse o mere yaar .... i love you for wat you are ......... !!!!!!!!!!

Free gift

Have you ever got some free gift by just surfing the internet ... good question na.
I knw everybody is ed up of receiving mails & poop ups for this earn online, make online money. For sure once in the life time evrybody has registered & tried for those things. Although the terms & conditions are never easy to full fill. Surfing internet for time pass is another thing & earning money by that is totally different. Its not at all that easy how it seems.

I have also registered for one site long back. That was for giving reviews for places & things. I know how much effort i put on that. Actually i was so much interested in free gift that i have worked all over my week on that site. only my PM can tell that how much the work was hampered at that time .. because i told him, i have lots of pending work ... let me complete that first... although i was not having any & he also dint received any update over work status from me but i want myself to be as much free as possible. Whatsoever in the end i got my free gift as Rebook shoes which matters ... whooopppyyyy... I really love those shoes not only they were free gift but also as due to extra effort for that !!

no option !!

You Dont have the option to say no ....You Dont have the option to say no ....You Dont have the option to say no ....
this was the only thing which was ticking in her mind since morning. I'll not do any compromise with my life & luck this time, doesn't matter how much struggle i have to do. What a destiny i have, what a luck, why only me, why God always do this to me ... all these unanswered questions were in her mind with a frequency of one per thought.

Being among the toppers of class at school & college level, she was not happy. Since begining she was at second place, she tried her best infact more than that but she was failed at level when it comes to be the FIRST. Her classmate stood first at university level. She was Second, that is also not bad but who cares for the person who is not first. Who remember second. What matters is whether you are first or not, no-one gonna come & ask how much effort you have put or how much pressure you felt, not even how much bad i felt at the moment of result ! She blaimed her luck, God , lastly her efforts also.

Time passed she started working. It was very much sure that one will find complete & accurate results for the task assigned to her whether it takes her weekends, sitting late hours & hamper her personal life. She will never let you down at professional front. One of the most valueable assest to her company. Year ended & now its time to promotion. Everybody was sure about her promotion & sent their wishes even in advance. Suddenly the announcement came that its time of recession, all the people of her competency Finance are getting fired due to lack of projects. Once again Luck was blaimed, she tried her level best to adjust for this situation.

Now once again she is in the same state but this time she dont want to blame her luck instead want to start from ashes of her trust & love. A happily married housewife, on the way to her routine checkup with Gyne. She was excited like a kid & crossing her fingers to hear some good news. She was praying God to let her handle the happiness. After getting the positive reports she was on the cloud nine of seventh sky. Busy in thoughts that what preparations she has to do for welcoming the new family member, how much she has to care for herself , how will she share this news with her better-half she was moving towards her cab. Suddenly she felt that it was Subodh, her husband. She took two setps backward to check was her vision clear or may be she was lost in her happiness but yes he is Subodh, what he is doing here, who is that lady patient, whose baby is in Subodh's hand, these all questions came to her mind at once only.

She felt all alone in this world as soon as diiferent thoughts were booming in her mind what if ......Some how she tried to manage her courage to go in the cottage & inquire from Subodh about her. Subodh was shocked to see Shreya in front of him. He placed the baby in the cott & came out of the room holding Shreya's hand. After a lot of arguments & looking at her positive report Subodh said " I am not going to divorce her, I am father of that baby. I loved Naina since the day i saw her but my dad was not ready so i managed this way out. I am very happy for your positive report, i assure you that you or your child will never feel alone. Our families won't accept this truth so you have to be silent. You don't have the option to say no & there wont be any other discussion over it."
Shocked Shreya was facing this behaviour from Subodh first time in last 6 years. It was the insult of her love & trust.

Well known by her that start of a life from ashes of trust & love is not at all a easy task but only for baby which is taking place in her body she decided to start her journey. She called the cab for hospital to meet Subodh & wish him good bye.

Youth

we never ever had girls in our lives...
because we love our would be wives....

This was the thought of most youngsters till the last generations. They were so honest with their decisions, the respect they have for themselves & others n their feelings just cant be measurable.

Now youth is more over towards

we have hundreds girls in our lives...
but our parents love only our wives....

They dont have respect for any person or his/her feelings, they don't want to stick & be honest with one, even they hate responsiblities. No believe in marriage is left but live-in is set with them.

Everyone should Smile

Smile costs nothing, so smile as much as possible. It makes all the things straight, one is never completely dressed if he/she is not wearing Smile. Best adressing way to welcome everybody,

Hey but if you are unmarried than think twice before giving smile to any stranger of opposite sex :P

Long Time

Really it has been a long time since i pen down for my blog.. i really missed it but may be life was very smooth between this time or may be very busy that i dint get enought time to stay in touch. Normally we need to pen down on every extreme like very happy or sad or irritated or exhausted or bored etc etc. Variation of moods ... this can be a great topic to talk about.

Everybody face fluctuation between moods at a single point of time. The best example is Wedding ...Girl's happiness can not be measured at that occasion but one the contrary there is also a saddest part which is not visible to all but still there & can never be explained in words. Departure of bride is one of the most happiest painful momemt to be captured in any wedding including the preparations of welcoming baraat, setting the menu for them, purchaising of gifts for everybody & more over finalisation of dresses to wear ;)

Niways i have been deviated a lot from this topic which i have started .. but no matters as of now becoause i am concluding this one. It is really very touchy moment to remember that time. Let me be back in my memories & you continue with your work.

Punctuality !!

Punctuality is a major problem in our India, we all have been trying hard to be punctual

For so many years but the problem is not evaporating and approaching more towards an impossible situation day by day.

Boss is angry from his employee for late coming, wife at home is angry from his husband for reaching home late, commuters/visitors are irritated from unregulated delayed trips of their flights and trains, even flyovers in metros are fuming because of their late completion and further delayed inauguration by our respective leaders.

Be it a school or office, airport or railways everybody in India tries his best to make his day as per plans but fails tremendously

Today my boss called me in the morning, I thought it would be a usual discussion of status update or what r u doing or something like that but it was not that, no it was not something unofficial or personal too.

Abhishek…. He shouted, in same tone which I use to call Bahadur (security guard) to open the door in the morning

Yes sir…coming.....I said, closing my personal mails and trying to show some urgent work in hand.

As I reached him, I wished him Morning sir in a best possible official tone.

To which he dint replied.

Hi…I said to nagendra who was already in discussion with him sitting nearby on a table cum drawer.

As I reached he closed the discussion saying some concluding statements with him and nagendra left in a jiffy.

I sat on the same table like a patient beside him who is visiting his doctor, I was feeling like doing Aaaa sound for allowing him to peep into my throat with his torch.

But it was not a hospital it was my office and I was sitting near to my boss.

He did something in his computer and turned it’s monitor towards me so that I can get a clearer view of what he is trying to show me.

I also peeped into his monitor expecting as if he is going to show me my performance graph and award me some early appraisal

Look Abhishek…this is your data showing your daily punch-in time and out time in office.

He said this and turned his horse-like face to me.

It is observed that you are coming late daily to office even till 11, Look.. and he pointed out to the sheet scrolling down, which had my in-time and out-time details and late entries marked with red.

I went through it and found the whole sheet red, In first look it gave me feel of a beautiful love letter written by some hard core lover to her girl friend on valentine’s day with it’s red n white combinations and my recent valentine celebration reminiscences.

Even after repeated reminders why r u coming late abhishek?? Even as u knw that how strict this organization is in terms of punctuality.

Silence…

I just kept my eyes fixed on monitor trying to find out any entry which could luckily be green, but pretended to be in such a shocked condition as if the data sheet is not mine or there is some system error,

But all in vain..

Sir, actually…there’s a huge jam on my way to office…

So what…stopping me from repeating this excuse for the nth time,

What is the solution to that..???

Again asking this solution from me for the nth time..

I kept quite, feeling of asking for solution to PWD or NHAI for jams!!

We all face jams, but manage to come on time daily…

At what time you start from your home by the way..

8:30…I said

....

Sanjay...boss shouted!!

At what time your start from your home??

7 10 sir…Sanjay(sitting at a distant seat) replied spontaneously like a jhamura of some madari

Look…he starts at 7 10 and make it to office by 9’o clock

Do you understand??

But sir… he has to catch a train from faridabad and trains don’t find jams on their way..

I replied with exhausted tone.

Boss kept silent and jhamura kept smiling for a while.

In case if you don’t regulate your in-time from tomorrow, you will have to apply for a half day leave whenever you come late to office as per the rules of the organization.

Okay..!! I said and left his cubicle

Rahul..

Boss shouted and called him for the same rounds of arguments I suppose, coz he also comes from the same locality as that of mine and he’s also not among who are able to make it on time somehow.

I came back to my seat and started doing some work to keep myself busy enough to not think of his peculiar arguments but I failed and his unanswered question for solution of jams and all kept hovering in my mind till I wrote this blog.

Why bosses are like this? I asked myself. I used to think that making wives fully happy with you is tough but making your boss happy with you is toughest, you can’t even gift them anything so that they let you at liberty for a while from their grilling n drilling.

Why they are not only concerned with the work, why they don’t see that I am not even leaving office at dot 1730.Why they cant understand the fact that how one can take a margin of 3 hours for just a 20 km drive.

I hope some day he reads all this and find some solution to the unanswered questions...........

Sore Throat

uff i am really fed up of this sore troat. this is the third time in this winter season i lost my voice due to this idiotic nd irritating problem. earlier it was in nov last year .. thn just after lohri .. nd now again :( i think i hv lost in terms of immunity... monthly ho gyaa hai ( jan thn feb) .. hey it also means i do a lot of hardwork ... u shld think abt it Abhishek :P

Just imagine you cant speak .. you hav viral nd moreover there are your week days... work is also getting hamper ... although i dont do any ..hehehe. Abhishek has done a lot for me in all these tyms bt its nt dair at all ... afterall at times i have to stay alone at home.. yet completely in touch with him through Mobile facility ... aahhh i just love my mobile :)
Yaar what people used to do in the early times ... niways i just wish that people arnd me n i stay away from any physical nd mental problem ... :) a Wish which everybdy does !!

I Love CP

Ahh one more weekend we are having ... i just love weekends, like everybody offcourse :)
Everybody must be knowing about CP ... our very own Connaught Place, Rajeev chowk , heartbeat of delhi etc etc...
you know there are some points at cp which are open 24X7. I have been there for many times for dinner followed by a long drive. cant explain you the exp .. its a feeling one of the best one.. the most relaxing thing ...
This friday noon we were thinking about our plan for weekend & suddenly i got an idea of going for a movie in the night .. the recent release Ishqiya !! but Abhishek refused .. he said i cant sit for 3 hrs for a movie like that although he loves the song ... ibn batuta & dil to bachcha hai jee !!Actually he is already having a plan with sunil ... Sunil - Rashmi are our close friends & now last weekend only they have shifted from greater noida to indirapuram.
So the plan goes like Sunil n Rashmi will come to our place & thn we will go for a outing ... its obvious that if name comes sunil by default a plan for drinking drinking n drinking :P
but now as both the guys are married, so they have to stay in their limit of drink even together also !! its like having your glass in your hand but you can not take it to your mouth :P
niways after this ladies gossip & guys drink session we have to go out for dinner but where ???uff the longest question mark i was having .... we all knew that some maintenance work is going on in cp so we might get loads of jaam there .. hunh i always know the place & he always have the reason to refuse ... so we planned for Windsor street market .. its in indirapuram only .. we went there & as always foodie me given them option of gol gappas or momo's ... hehehe. a very big confusion wat to take n wat to not so first we took the yummy gol-gappe nd thn momo's ...Sunil has not taken even a single bite of anything... thats the reason for his physique i guess... will definetly put some photograps of us here.
now wat ... clock is already ticking 10:45PM nd we are in no mood to go for the roti-sabji dinner even in the finest dining place .. more over we were not that much hungry!!
Sunil said i want to go for a long drive .. i also supported him ( always ready for long drives;) ). Rashmi n Abhishek gave us a blank look that where we will go ...ehhh again a terrific question to answer .. sunil said lets go to india gate ... i said vahan to bahut thand hogi ( india gate is the freezing part of delhi :( ). thn all of a sudden Abhishek said lets go to CP ... we will have some Kadi-chawal over the most famous joint of that place. I stared him like i will eat him coz this was my idea ... & now he is having appreciations for getting this idea .. hunh hunh hunh but cant do nithing after all he is my loving hubby :)
so we started our long drive with romantic songs :P i swear there was no jaam in CP .. not even at any point on the way .. Finally we had our kadi chawal , chole chawal , bread pakoda followed by a coffee over there ...
i cant tell you how much i love that restaurant & CP :)
Will tell you later about my plan for this sunday.

Planning Bikaner Visit....

Hey , as you must be knowing that we were not able to materialize our plan for bikaner visit at lohri, but any how we managed our visit last weekend for 4 days ... It was 26^th Jan falling on Tuesday so taking a Monday’s leave made full four days..

Whooopppyyyy !!

Only I know that how we have fought for this visit, we just need the one day leave.

Although it is always like a battle to ask for a leave for bikaner visit at my office, Nishu generally don’t get any road blocks in getting her leave sanctioned may be she’s doubly lucky to have a good husband and a polite boss in life at the same time... lolz with touch wood :P

But if u ask about my boss its just a pathetic tom n jerry play, asking for a single day leave is similar to ask for sleeping with his wife for a night.

I have always heard people fighting even for their Casual leaves, I never understand the fact if it is a casual leave then why it requires such a formal reason in order to acquire it, why juz it can’t be simply as casual as our mood.

Anyways, Organizations don’t have heart, that is what one can conclude to console your heart.

The project which we were working upon was no near to the end. means it has to be delayed and which in turn requires our extra effort in terms of working on Saturday and Sunday. I had already applied for the Monday’s leave 3 days in advance which was neither approved nor rejected

As per the plan nishu started from our indirapuram house with luggage in order to pick me from office and then catch the 9PM bus but here the scene was different, I dint tell her but it could be that I can take her back to home with luggage and bikaner trip cancelled.

But somehow we reached on some presentable state and justified that it has some still pending issues to be done and requires a genuine budgeted hours in order to do that, this is what we made our manager to understand so he dint even thought of working on weekend that meant the weekend was ours and bikaner trip was going to happen... whoooopppyyy !!

Will update you about the visit later on .....

First Lohri

Sometimes the things don’t go the way you want ... but it goes in the way that you just love it!!
same thing happened to us at our first lohri...

First of all let me tell you a Lil about Lohri(with the help of google :P), It's basically a north-india festival celebrated for harvesting winter(Rabi) Crops and It is very important for Newly wed and new born babies. basically it was originated in Punjab, the breadbasket of India.
So Punjabi community celebrating a festivals means, Lots of uncles n aunties fully loaded with their party wear Jewelry and heavy dresses, loud music, little-2 pegs and larger then life dinner plates. And of course not to forget, their huuuuuge gossips

We had a fulltush plan for going to bikaner on this auspicious occasion but Abhishek has fallen short of leaves, so wasn’t able to make it up. it was like first giving you the cup of ice cream nd then snatching it from you !!
Anyways we were not having any other choice apart from making our day in Delhi only. i was casually working in the office than suddenly i got a call from Abhishek that some of our local relatives are coming to our place in the evening for celebrating lohri... oh my God ... i need a hell lot of time to do the preparation & you are telling me now !!

uff after a lot of discussion regarding the arrangement n plan, We spent the rest of the day in office planning those things, and left office by 4 for sake of preperations, we decided to prepare the dinner at home only. that means i will be fully involved in kitchen for the evening & he has to do the rest of arrangements!! it is no less tougher then delivering a project in one tenth of the time decided for its completion and getting an appreciation note from the client......Huh
i wonder sometimes how mumma used to do it all the years
By grace of God and with a lil help of my husband we prepared everything well in time.

After preparing everything till late in the evening, we jus remembered that we also need some bonfire without of which lohri can’t be celebrated, there were we, having prepared everything except the main festival thing and clock ticking time of guests reaching our home anytime.
As we are newly shifted in our new house in Indirapuram, this place is not much familiar to us, and finding a wood store at the last moment was really tough. Infact no one has to do nything with the rituals but if you dont have it there will be talks for sure. means delivering of project without appreciation note ;)

we were asking our neighbors, guard, chowkidaar for any nearby wood store from where we can get just a few wood sticks to celebrate our first lohri but no one could be of any use to it, then suddenly an idea clicked to my husband that finally worked out, we simply went to a near-by temple, where we saw a small shop in front of the temple keeping very few items which could be useful to daily temple visitors, and there we found the wood sticks which he used to keep for Hawans etc., I could never expect, that small shop can be of such a big use. The wood sticks he said was for Rs 15 per KG :) even the flour we have is cheaper then this but may be he recognized our urgency at that time, after the negotiations he agreed for rs 12 a kg and he weighed the woods as if he was weighing some Gold items, my husband gave him a weird look and paid him and we rushed back to our home

Guests started reaching by 8 in the evening with their usual showing-off attitude for whatever they possess or even not possessed ever

We also invited some of our friends, few out of which i guess even could not know what they were celebrating but they just knew was they had few large pegs of their favourite brand and that followed by a dinner and that too followed by the desert and that also free of cost.
But anyways thank God the party went on with full energy. We had lot of fun, music, masti maja, gossip and not to forget lots of food for which we finally got appreciation note from everybody.Woww…J Don’t know should I thank the alcohol effects for that or the God or my husband …but whatever, it was good
It was around 1 or 1:30 till we got our bed for sleeping. It was too much for us that we woke up at 10o clk next day & i was having full body ache with fever. eh ...that was the 2nd bungle for me.
We went to office in second half making another excuse for late coming but self satisfied that anyhow we managed a day’s leave from the office.
Nevertheless, will keep you updated regarding other happenings of the life !!

Welcome 2010

2010 is striking, 2009 is gone
What it has gifted you, and what to ponder upon..
something that u have proved to the world
a lot more which is to be shown..
few ups n downs u’ve gone through
and many more to take hands on
a few relations who made your year
and a few which slipped through a soggy lawn
So Guys whatver u’ve missed whatvr u’ve gained.
Let the thumbs go up and as they say…
The Show Must go on :)


PS : This is a self composed rhyme so don't try to do copy- paste !!:P

Welcome Note

Finally i am free enough to write the welcome note for my blog ... dnt think like ki i am too much busy person or shows like Do not disturb, i am busy with my stuff ... its just your sheer luck guys ;) .. Actually initially i was waiting for my hubby to do the honour but he is really busy enough for these vehla-panti ( hehehe).

So a big & warm "WELCOME" to all the lovely people (dnt knw if they are actually like this only) who are reading this blog.

Whooopppyyy i am a blogger now ... hope you will find some regular posts here.
Love : Nishka-Abhishek .. naam hi kaafi hai :)

PS : if you dnt knw us much just visit out wedding site .. may be u'll find some interesting fact about us & our story " http://ewedding.com/sites/nishu0abhi". I just love to visit & enjoy those moments again n again !!